Art Of Being A Good Kisser!

Do you know how to kiss, really kiss someone? Kissing is the most electrifying emotion that you can offer someone instantly. Kissing is an art and a skill. Kissing is special so don't freely give to anyone, chose your partner wisely when giving your kisses. The touch of two lips coming together is sensual and erotic. There should be an instant jolt of energy when lips touch for the first time. You should feel it from you lips to your stomach to your toes. Kissing is an expression of emotions so make sure you are expressing the right emotion when kissing. A kiss is a gift; enjoy the gift of feeling someone’s lips upon yours.

So many types of kisses to offer your partner or lover or friend, but I want to review what NOT to do first;

The Don’ts of Kissing;

• Don’t plant your mouth over your partners like a vacuum (yuk)
• Slobbery mouths are never a winner, make your mouth moist, not wet with slobber
• Don't kiss like your crazy, moving your head back and forth
• Open mouth kisses are fine, but not the giant open mouth like a baby bird waiting on food, but like, holding a marble in your lips (soft open mouth)
• Pecking like a woodpecker is NEVER allowed (on any area of the body)
• Mushing your lips into your partners is not permitted…no squashing
• No chapped lips (feels like your kissing an alligator)
• When your partner is leaning in to give you a kiss goodbye, pucker up, never just let them kiss flat lips, always pucker up
• Darting your tongue in and out of the mouth, is NOT a turn on
• Don't kiss and lick at the same time, it should be one motion
• Pay attention to your partner, if they aren't into it, then stop, read all the signs
• Don't lick someone like a dog, that is just gross
• Sores on your mouth is never good, so clean up your mouth before kissing

Great Kissing is An Art;

First Kiss– often the most memorable, anticipated kiss, so be confident, lean in (eyes open until lips touch) pucker up the lips, very slowly, gently touch your partner’s lips, softly move your lips so you can catch your partner’s bottom or top lip in yours. This first kiss is exhilarating and then slowing tug on the bottom or top lip. No tongue just moist, soft, confident lips.

Feather Kiss -lightly touching your lips to another, slowly, tenderlyand just a hint of breathe between your lips; it’s stirring and thrilling all at the same time. Feather kisses are where your bodies aren't touching but so close the heat is surging between you. Just like a feather kiss.

French Kiss – the most electrifying of all kisses is the French Kiss. Little by little as lips part and the peek of a pink tongue sneaks into your mouth, the ecstasy of one’s tongue touching your lips, teeth and tongue is so stimulating that your senses fly out the window and your body takes over with hunger. This kiss is passionate, borderline obsessive but creates longing for one another. Pure, raw, electric heat between two mouths once the tongue starts playing creates a liquid pool of lust between two mouths that it’s breathtaking.

Peck Kiss – yes, it happens the immediate unplanned peck with your partner. Or you get nervous and decide to give a quick “peak” just to show them you are interested. A peck kiss is very important actually, when departing, lean into your partner (lover or whoever) lean into them, lick your lips (no slobber) but moist lips and quickly peck them as you are walking away. Let it linger on your lip, its raw interest you are sending, the message translating through your lips.

Lust Kiss – I love a kiss that speaks lust. It’s dominant, hardcore, and compulsive, plus, it reeks of desire between two people. The craving is derived from thirst for one another. It’s real and the kiss should be long and full of greedy lust. Lust kisses should start soft but definitely progress into a crazed hardcore groping session (I mean, deep-seated kissing that reaches one’s private parts). The kissing session should be intense, delightful and tender (all at the same time). Remember, the rules above, no slobber, no full open mouth but passionate lip to lip combat that makes you quiver.

Kissing is an art and a skill. One that everyone should master because it’s a beautiful piece of art that two people create together. Kisses should be meaningful yet, lustful. Kissing is where it begins and where it ends, so be a good kisser. Practice makes perfect, ask an old partner to help you (even practice with them) if they will let you (it should be fun). Look in the mirror, study your lips, practice on a pillow, but whatever you do, be a good kisser; it could make or break your relationship. Create desire through kissing, know your mouth, your lips and know how to use them when kissing another.