How To Give Your Lover A Full Body Massage

It does not matter if you are married, have a lover, significant other, spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend, whatever you wish to call that person laying in bed with you it’s important to understand how to massage your lover the right way. It can be sexy, sleazy, sultry or sensual. But most importantly, you need to know how to give a massage. Here are some simple tips that will help you be a sensual, erotic massage therapist, professionally no, but helpful, yes;

• Always use oil, preferably massage oil (you can find in any drugstore or adult store)
• Rub oil in your hands and start with the back, have them take off their shirt, then rub in slow outward motions to massage the oil into the skin.
• Feel free to sit on the arse to work your fingers, palms and hands into the back with slow sensual circular motions that will loosen up the muscles.
• Slowly move your hands from an outward motion to an inner circular motion, hands working in unison as you work towards the buttocks area.
• Work your way down the buttocks with slow circular motions and press firmly on the buttocks as you loosen the muscles in the arse.
• Keep working as you work down the buttocks to the hamstrings (at this time pants should be off). Add more oil to your palms and rub deeply into the thigh muscles. Work hard with your fingertips and palms to loosen up these muscles. Working fingertips under the buttocks where they meet the hamstrings can be very erotic for your partner (try it, it’s fun for both)
• Continue your massage down to the calves; kissing along the way is option but make sure you are using wide circular motions in this area. Start working on the heel of the foot. Feet and toes are very sensitive and if you want to make it even more exciting add eatable oil (like olive oil) and use your mouth to massage the toes (just a suggestion).
• Work your fingers in between each toe, pulling on the toes as you are moving the foot around.
• Continue to move to the top of the foot and use your whole hand to cup the foot and pull and push the foot or feet to work the muscles. Sucking on the toes is up to you, but it is very sensual for your partner.
• Continue to work up the naked body the same as you did on the back, however, wherever you chose to press your lips is up to you. Hopefully at this point your partner’s body should be almost if not completely naked.
• Reaching the hip area, will require all body parts to be intertwined and engaged in the full body massage. I will let you use your imagination but rubbing your body gently onto your partners could be very useful and/or exploding. Kissing or massaging with you mouth is optional.
• As stated, use slow circular motions with the outward motion on the bigger muscles and the smaller muscles use the wide circular motions.
• Once you have reached the abdomen area, large circular motions, alternating between outward and inward motions. Remember, cupping the breast gently as you are work through the pectoral area is always allowed.
• Don’t forget the arms, wide circular motions with deep pressure on the shoulders and forearms. Intertwine the fingers with yours and move them up and down, make sure you have plenty of oil and if you prefer to use your mouth on the fingers, that is of course, optional.
• Once you reach the neck and head area, the smaller the motion, the better affect it will have on your partner. Nibbling behind the ear or on the earlobe is a wonderful added massage technique that does call for immediate arouse (so beware).
• Lastly, kissing the face, lips, cheeks and eyelids will be preferred but using your hands will be optional. Massage your fingertips into the scalp and work your hands through the hair. Preferably, lean your partner’s head back and kiss them erotically, this always helps with massages. Then switch with your partner and collect your body massage.

Massaging the body for your lover , partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, or whoever can be on whatever level you want it to be should be enjoyable to say the least. However, the most important thing to remember is to apply pressure (not to much) work with your hands, body and other body parts to make the massage as sensual, sexy, sleazy or sultry as you want it. But working with oil is always a pleasure for your partner to experience. Body massages are suppose to relax and bring peacefulness to your partner, so keep that in mind as you are working the magic of your hands through the body of your lover.