Advice For Men - Married or Dating, here's help!

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By Ladybird33

Men - Great Tips For Dating, Lover or Married!

This article is for all those men that need a little extra help or more importantly advice from one women that has a few points for all you men.  Dating and need a wax job?  Hair back, nose or ears?  Common on, what is it that is bothering you?  Seriously, just browse this article because I promise you that one of these tips will help you with your woman, one way or another.

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Try the Dating Tips!

Here are some simple tips that go a long way;

  1. Seriously, if you have not invested in a nose trimmer, go out and buy one today! Having nose hairs grow out of your nose like spiders, really does not attract anyone. (Best tip of the day). Feel free to use the trimmer on your ears too… In fact, you can get your nose and ears waxed, seriously, you can at any nail salon! PS; don't forget the back, if you are really hairy, then try getting that waxed too.
  2. When your significant other is looking into your eyes, look back and don’t break contact until she does.
  3. It’s nice sometimes to get a little affection (not groping) but softly touching her back or holding her hand spontaneously.
  4. When she asks if this outfit “makes me look fat” turn to her, take a moment and tell her, be honest and never ever say “fine.” “Fine” to women means “bad” so be nice and choose your words wisely because if you don’t like it, then tell her what you do like on her.
  5. When talking to your friends or emailing people (especially of opposite sex) include your wife and kids in the emails (one way or another). Show respect to your significant other and children that you are happy and you are in a very small way showing that happiness. When you do this, it will come back to your significant other and let me tell you (when she hears you were mentioning her in an email, you will be rewarded, I promise!).We just want to know that you think of us.
  6. During the day, send an email, text or call just to say you love her. That’s all we want to hear, we think of our men a lot and worry about them, and it’s nice to know that you are doing it too.
  7. Don’t stare, glue your eyes on there a$$ or look at other women when we are with you. My husband and I will talk of a pretty woman or I will mention if the outfit looks bad on someone, but when you are staring at a young women to long, it makes the person your with uncomfortable and truly, the person your staring at thinks you’re a jerk for doing it right in front of your significant other (most of the time).
  8. In front of your mother, say something nice and truthful, don’t always make yourself look good, but help your significant other win some brownie points too.
  9. When you do get married, remember, your wife comes first. No matter what, you put her first, call when your running late, talk with her before you make decisions and remember, she comes first, over your mother (and before yourself too). Crucial that you remember that, because that will help your marriage a lot in the first few years.
  10. Communicate, Communicate, and Communicate. Do I have to say it again? When she asks about your day don’t say “it was okay or fine” tell her about it. We women want to understand what is going on in your world. If you are dropping by to see a friend (tell her), if you are running late (tell her) if you are drinking and come in way to late and were stupid (tell her) tell her all these things before you do them (if you can). But this tip will help you make your marriage/relationship work, trust me, I know. Communication is critical in everything you do!

I truly could go on and on and maybe I will have a part 2 of this article but for now, remember, in no random order above try one or all of these tips, they will work and they will help. When women commit they want to feel special, loved and most of all be yours.

Lover Lover, I Want you!

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Comments

\Brenda Scully 2 years ago

train them all up for us....nasal hair is such a turn off...... great hub

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wesleycox Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

I must say I think my wife would agree with you. These are some great tips to maintaining a healthy relationship.

BadCo 2 years ago

I always keep me nose shaved, doncha just hate hairy bits lol ; )

PS - Love yer Blog x

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bingskee Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

i love the soft touches. i hate it when they stare. and i hate it so much when hubby seems not listening to my stories. :-(

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Ladybird33 Hub Author 2 years ago

Brenda, if I can help others...or men, that would be wonderful :) I hope.

BC, thanks, I appreciate it

bingskee, Yes, soft touches is the best and staring is the worst.

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Philipo 2 years ago

Thanks a lot. Well spoken. You have said it all.

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Ladybird33 Hub Author 2 years ago

Thank you Philipo, I am grateful

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arpeet_26 2 years ago

really helpful...

u've mentioned very important things that men should always remember...

especially that nasal hair thing...!!

thanks a lot...!!!

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Harvey Stelman 2 years ago

Ladybird, Ever since I got married (32 years ago) I always said one thing. Always make your wife happy. If you accomplish this, there is a good chance she will make you happy.

Also an ethnic note: I'm Jewish, men are trained to always take care of your wife and kids first. If anything is left over, it may be yours.

philip carey 61 2 years ago

I wish my mother would have discreetly set a book containing these important tips on my bed when I was 13. But, nooooo, she put some embarrassing pamphlet about human reproduction in my room one day while I was at school, and I had to come to the dinner table and avoid all eye contact.

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Pearldiver 2 years ago

Hi Ladybird,

Oh don't tell them all the secrets!! How is a Scorpio to maintain his mistique if others try to mimic? Besides, alot of those tips can also apply to the occassional outback woman.. especially that nasal growth! Good tips write some more and don't forget that for the 2nd twenty years of marriage you have to always leave the seat up lol. Take care. ps: Every Jewish wife I've spoken to has told me that the Mum came first.. lol.

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Neil Sperling Level 5 Commenter 2 years ago

Cool - I did most of the above on a regular basis and when my job failed she ran out.... LOL

I think you are Bang on with all your statements.

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Ladybird33 Hub Author 2 years ago

Harvey, thank you so much for commenting.

Pearldiver, yep, I have to tell them the secrets, some men ust don't know :)

Neil, Thanks so much for commenting!

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tonymac04 2 years ago

Thanks for the tips - most of them I already do (at least I think so! LOL). I do use a nose hair trimmer (and on my ears too!)

Love and peace

Tony

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Ladybird33 Hub Author 22 months ago

tonymac04, how are you? I am proud of you for admitting you use a nose hair trimmer, wish other guys would :) Thanks for commenting!!!

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Neverletitgo 19 months ago

Very nice tips for us. Thanks for your tips lady

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Ladybird33 Hub Author 12 months ago

Neverletitgo, how are you? Hope these tips help! thanks for stopping by.

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